Everyone has always been excited for another start of the Year. After the celebration of love, peace and giving, the year ends which is another call for a merrier and joyous New Year. Some would prepare a better feast than what has been prepared during Christmas because we usually believe that the more abundant the food the more blessing for the entire year. Everything has to be in the context of abundance for it would best start a blessed year.
Aside from the grandeur which indicates of how you would want your entire year to be, the other aspect of how people celebrate the start of another year is to emphasize a “New Year’s Resolution”. A New Year’s Resolution is actually about trying to enumerate either things or attitude of which you think of changing of keeping. The negative ones are those that you want to avoid or perhaps stop doing in general and the positive ones are those that you want to carry out maybe because your goal is to become a “better you”. Now I say that in my own point-of-view, the whole year round can always be a chance for change, and that everyday is an opportunity to learn and get better.
Believing in the concept of New Year’s Resolution sometimes makes us ending up in frustration. One reason is that one is actually focused on limiting oneself to a programmed desire for a change rather than allowing unexpected experiences that have a purpose of bringing out moral lessons. It’s not only during New Year that we need to be challenged for any attitude change but it is an everyday opportunity. All the time in the world is a chance for everyone to yearn for a better self. We may be confined with what tradition dictates but I guess, here is nothing wrong if we try to defy the usual thinking that New Year had always been everybody’s chance to set new things in becoming a better one. I hate to rationalize that with that kind of thinking, we always have to wait for a year to start improving. Too bad, if we have wasted some chances because we were waiting for a year to begin. What I am trying to point out is why we nee to wait, if we can have it immediately as much as we are willing to do so. Opportunities to grow as a person come everyday. We get to encounter situations every now and then that have something to do with increasing the level of maturity as human being. When the purpose of New Year’s Resolution is for attitudinal growth and personality development; it can happen in any instance if we are determined to do so.
With that, I believe that we can welcome change in our lives if we really want to. Its’ just matter of being certain about what we want to achieve. Though it has been a practice to have it during the start of the year within the concept of a so-called New Year’s resolution, we can always improve ourselves anytime we want to. Live life, learn lessons and always allow growth!
Friday, February 6, 2009
Patience and Waiting Intertwined
When you wait, you need to have patience to endure the waiting. On the other hand, when you have patience that will only mean that you know how to wait for the perfect time for everything. Patience and waiting are virtues that develop a person's positive outlook in life.
Now here is the scenario: Late Monday afternoon, I was waiting for a transportation bound for my hometown in a gasoline station where southbound vehicles usually pass by. I had been there for almost an hour but the coasters and jeepneys that came were loaded enough that I could not anymore be accommodated. There were already seven trips that I missed and I started to worry. When I was already giving up, that I already wanted to return to the city terminal, I had my long wait over. A van (also means of transportation nowadays) arrived and luckily, it still had a lot of vacant seats where I got the chance to ride comfortably. I had a nice and comfy trip home. I didn't have to bear a standing position in a coaster, as well as to sit on a small wooden bench just to have ride home.
It was very simple situation that everybody gets to experience in a day-to-day basis, but honestly, it had an impact on me. It may seem to be a very ordinary circumstance but at one point, the Lord has His own way of suing common situations to make us realize His existence. The ordinary experiences each day at times carry a message or a lesson perhaps. And it, reminded me that patience and waiting always go hand in hand. The scenario applies in all aspects of life, especially at a certain point where we are trapped in an upsetting dilemma.
In relationships, I guess my little theory is valid. When you worry enough of not finding “the one” for you, the value of waiting helps. Finding the right person for you does not happen overnight, that is why I am not a believer of the “love at first sight.” patiently wait for God's perfect will for your life, including the right person He will send you. Patiently know the person, and wait for the right time to commit. You may have several failed relationships. Still, wait and be patient for the right relationship for you. The bus and the jeepneys may represent the people that come and go in your life, but when you give patience and waiting a space in yourself... in the end, everything will fall into place because you patiently wait. The right vehicle will intentionally stop in front of you, to tell you that they would love to have you in the journey.
Let us try to relate it with finding a career in life. Success, again is not as easy as 1..2..3.. just like finding the ideal career just right for you. Working hard to achieve what you want in life is the key. In the concept of hard work, still patience and waiting are major ingredients. Patience because of the uneasy trail to reach success, and waiting for the right break for your hard work. To start a career is just like waiting for the right bus to come. The first bus may have ignored you because it is overloaded and the jeepney might not stop because you do not fit in there, but believing that there are still a lot if vehicles to come that will accommodate you, is always the right attitude. Again, patience is truly needed to be able to wait f r the right ride. You may be rejected in an application, or evicted because you don't fit in anymore- but believe, there is always something designed for you where you can make use of your full potentials. Patiently try again in times of frustration or stand after a fall, then wait for other chance to come intended for you.
The two virtues always come entangled. These will help us to always open up our minds to positiveness. Whatever is for us, it will come. It may not be that immediate, but surely it will happen.
Now here is the scenario: Late Monday afternoon, I was waiting for a transportation bound for my hometown in a gasoline station where southbound vehicles usually pass by. I had been there for almost an hour but the coasters and jeepneys that came were loaded enough that I could not anymore be accommodated. There were already seven trips that I missed and I started to worry. When I was already giving up, that I already wanted to return to the city terminal, I had my long wait over. A van (also means of transportation nowadays) arrived and luckily, it still had a lot of vacant seats where I got the chance to ride comfortably. I had a nice and comfy trip home. I didn't have to bear a standing position in a coaster, as well as to sit on a small wooden bench just to have ride home.
It was very simple situation that everybody gets to experience in a day-to-day basis, but honestly, it had an impact on me. It may seem to be a very ordinary circumstance but at one point, the Lord has His own way of suing common situations to make us realize His existence. The ordinary experiences each day at times carry a message or a lesson perhaps. And it, reminded me that patience and waiting always go hand in hand. The scenario applies in all aspects of life, especially at a certain point where we are trapped in an upsetting dilemma.
In relationships, I guess my little theory is valid. When you worry enough of not finding “the one” for you, the value of waiting helps. Finding the right person for you does not happen overnight, that is why I am not a believer of the “love at first sight.” patiently wait for God's perfect will for your life, including the right person He will send you. Patiently know the person, and wait for the right time to commit. You may have several failed relationships. Still, wait and be patient for the right relationship for you. The bus and the jeepneys may represent the people that come and go in your life, but when you give patience and waiting a space in yourself... in the end, everything will fall into place because you patiently wait. The right vehicle will intentionally stop in front of you, to tell you that they would love to have you in the journey.
Let us try to relate it with finding a career in life. Success, again is not as easy as 1..2..3.. just like finding the ideal career just right for you. Working hard to achieve what you want in life is the key. In the concept of hard work, still patience and waiting are major ingredients. Patience because of the uneasy trail to reach success, and waiting for the right break for your hard work. To start a career is just like waiting for the right bus to come. The first bus may have ignored you because it is overloaded and the jeepney might not stop because you do not fit in there, but believing that there are still a lot if vehicles to come that will accommodate you, is always the right attitude. Again, patience is truly needed to be able to wait f r the right ride. You may be rejected in an application, or evicted because you don't fit in anymore- but believe, there is always something designed for you where you can make use of your full potentials. Patiently try again in times of frustration or stand after a fall, then wait for other chance to come intended for you.
The two virtues always come entangled. These will help us to always open up our minds to positiveness. Whatever is for us, it will come. It may not be that immediate, but surely it will happen.
How to Get Rid of “Inggit”
Why is it that even if you're the best of friends, close-knit siblings or tight friends. You have at one point, felt the twinge of “inggit” whenever something good happens to him/her. Instead of being happy, we find ourselves threatened, resentful, insecure, and extremely stressed and pressured at others good fortune. We fund ourselves disconted with what we have.
Envy is inherent in our nature. The thing is what envy causes, isn't just mean remarks but actions that can be destructive to others and most especially to you.
Envy asks on leading question: “What about me?” I sure do know you don't want to be the pathetic and “inggitera” all your life, so get over it. Here are some helpful ways:
1.STOP IT and I mean ASAP! AS you become aware of your envy, better stop and DO NOT, on impluse, make actions or adopt attitudes that will work against yourself.
2.Focus on your own qualities. Make the most of what you have and enjoy it! Learn to like what you have and believe in your self.
3.Spend time with the person you envy. Yes, you read me right! Hang out with you “kinaiinggitan”. This way, you get to see the whole scenario and may find out that there is less to envy than what you originally perceived.
4.Be yourself. The best way to stick out from the crowd is not to copy everyone or someone as they do. Be cool because you're unique than to emulate someone you think is coll and look so “pa-cool” which is ridiculous.
5.Be happy. A smile makes one stand out from a bunch of poker-faced people. Think about it.
Envy is not wholly negative. It can drive us forward in positive ways. Don't waste precious time and energy wallowing in “inggit”. Okay? Get up, stand out, be grounded, be heard and be happy!
Envy is inherent in our nature. The thing is what envy causes, isn't just mean remarks but actions that can be destructive to others and most especially to you.
Envy asks on leading question: “What about me?” I sure do know you don't want to be the pathetic and “inggitera” all your life, so get over it. Here are some helpful ways:
1.STOP IT and I mean ASAP! AS you become aware of your envy, better stop and DO NOT, on impluse, make actions or adopt attitudes that will work against yourself.
2.Focus on your own qualities. Make the most of what you have and enjoy it! Learn to like what you have and believe in your self.
3.Spend time with the person you envy. Yes, you read me right! Hang out with you “kinaiinggitan”. This way, you get to see the whole scenario and may find out that there is less to envy than what you originally perceived.
4.Be yourself. The best way to stick out from the crowd is not to copy everyone or someone as they do. Be cool because you're unique than to emulate someone you think is coll and look so “pa-cool” which is ridiculous.
5.Be happy. A smile makes one stand out from a bunch of poker-faced people. Think about it.
Envy is not wholly negative. It can drive us forward in positive ways. Don't waste precious time and energy wallowing in “inggit”. Okay? Get up, stand out, be grounded, be heard and be happy!
Dealing with a Re-acquaintance
It has been ages since your last face to face encounter. It was not so good. It was a decision to part ways…to finally call it quits. The good- bye was something you don’t want to linger in your memory. You weren’t so ready for things to happen that way still you let go and walked away. But in time, you were able to rebuild a better life without the other; after all, time heals the wound. The forgiveness was gradual; your heart has to eventually mend. Though the adjustment was a major struggle it has made you a stronger person.
Now, just when you thought that everything was already just a part of your so-called “past” it all of the sudden comes back and says hello. It was supposedly a long time ago story; something that you already have forgotten- it recurs. The issue here is, how do you deal? Why a reappearance? After those years of interval; there you are in front of somebody who was so long ago a very important part of your being. Yes, you are with that person again, in close encounter… in a wedding perhaps, of a common friend who is close to both of you. You have no choice but to act as normal as you are to accommodate and speak to him without any traces of pain. Therefore, this kind of re-acquaintance is never easy, believe me. This may be very easy to think of but kind of a difficult to execute.
So how do you treat the scenario? Well it depends on how mature you are and the other party is, but basically I believe both of you will have an awkward moment for a little while. Your maturity in the first place is necessary for you to be able to handle the situation. That awkward moment will be prolonged if you will not exert an effort to act as natural as you are in accommodating that person sincerely. There was forgiveness already so there is no reason to dwell on what had happened in the past which had caused you pain. It is important to be seen in your actions that you already have moved on and is happy of what is at present.
What if the re-acquaintance turned out to be a pleasant one? You felt something different. The other has grown to be someone totally different from the past. Extra sweet, maybe. The conversation was enjoyable and refreshing that in short, the company that you just had was something really special.
I think it was just okay to giggle and be flattered about how sweet the encounter was but the point is do not internalize everything. It can be true that you somehow missed each other but put a period to that, after all you have to be reminded that what you actually feel is now, within the boundaries of friendship. Just be happy of how you were able to re-establish a friendship. Take it that way. For sure there was a purpose why your path had crossed once again but it is on the matters of trying to regain the friendship that once have lost.
That re-acquaintance might leave something in your mind. It may be a thought that you keep on giggling about as an after effect. Reality check: Both of you are already committed. This ends the issue. Wake up! What you have felt can be an infatuation and it’s perfectly okay for as long as you don’t listen closely to what you are feeling. It won’t help entertaining colorful interpretation of that experience. Your commitment with the one you have at present is enough reason for you to open up your eyes with the reality that you have to face.
I also happened to see that person after a lengthy period of time and it taught me one big lesson that I have appreciated. I realized how certain I was with my feeling with the person I was committed with. Everything that we encounter from day to day always has subliminal messages that we need to be sensitive with. At one point, I have learned from the experience that what is important is the happiness that you have in the present. You may come across once again with somebody in your past; they will remain as part of the chapter in the past. It was the important message that had prompt me. The best thing to do is to not complicate your life. It happened for a reason and the reason is to continue getting over and moving on.
Now, just when you thought that everything was already just a part of your so-called “past” it all of the sudden comes back and says hello. It was supposedly a long time ago story; something that you already have forgotten- it recurs. The issue here is, how do you deal? Why a reappearance? After those years of interval; there you are in front of somebody who was so long ago a very important part of your being. Yes, you are with that person again, in close encounter… in a wedding perhaps, of a common friend who is close to both of you. You have no choice but to act as normal as you are to accommodate and speak to him without any traces of pain. Therefore, this kind of re-acquaintance is never easy, believe me. This may be very easy to think of but kind of a difficult to execute.
So how do you treat the scenario? Well it depends on how mature you are and the other party is, but basically I believe both of you will have an awkward moment for a little while. Your maturity in the first place is necessary for you to be able to handle the situation. That awkward moment will be prolonged if you will not exert an effort to act as natural as you are in accommodating that person sincerely. There was forgiveness already so there is no reason to dwell on what had happened in the past which had caused you pain. It is important to be seen in your actions that you already have moved on and is happy of what is at present.
What if the re-acquaintance turned out to be a pleasant one? You felt something different. The other has grown to be someone totally different from the past. Extra sweet, maybe. The conversation was enjoyable and refreshing that in short, the company that you just had was something really special.
I think it was just okay to giggle and be flattered about how sweet the encounter was but the point is do not internalize everything. It can be true that you somehow missed each other but put a period to that, after all you have to be reminded that what you actually feel is now, within the boundaries of friendship. Just be happy of how you were able to re-establish a friendship. Take it that way. For sure there was a purpose why your path had crossed once again but it is on the matters of trying to regain the friendship that once have lost.
That re-acquaintance might leave something in your mind. It may be a thought that you keep on giggling about as an after effect. Reality check: Both of you are already committed. This ends the issue. Wake up! What you have felt can be an infatuation and it’s perfectly okay for as long as you don’t listen closely to what you are feeling. It won’t help entertaining colorful interpretation of that experience. Your commitment with the one you have at present is enough reason for you to open up your eyes with the reality that you have to face.
I also happened to see that person after a lengthy period of time and it taught me one big lesson that I have appreciated. I realized how certain I was with my feeling with the person I was committed with. Everything that we encounter from day to day always has subliminal messages that we need to be sensitive with. At one point, I have learned from the experience that what is important is the happiness that you have in the present. You may come across once again with somebody in your past; they will remain as part of the chapter in the past. It was the important message that had prompt me. The best thing to do is to not complicate your life. It happened for a reason and the reason is to continue getting over and moving on.
The Advantage of Being a Weak Person
The title is actually a big lie because being weak is never an advantage. Somehow, I would want to discuss on the matters of being weak because as human we all have the vulnerable part of our personality. The title was designed to catch your attention that whether you are a person with a strong character, I guess it appeals to you and how much more those who are easily discouraged and unmotivated. This is something that the “weaks” should ponder about.
To start with, you will only discover how strong you are as a person if you have learned to acknowledge the opposite side. You may very tough as you are perceived by everybody but one thing for sure is that there is a part of you that is soft. The subject “weak” in this discussion will center on an attitude of being easily discourage in times confronted with life’s chaos, unmotivated because of a very low self-esteem, those who are trapped in an inferiority complex mode and someone who do not believe in herself/himself that they can actually make a difference. Before this attitude swallows you, it would be better to start trying to overcome it so that it wouldn’t become something that controls you. An attitude that hinders you to achieve and be somebody you want to be.
To posses any of the above mentioned character is indeed negative and to summarize it’s effect; you’ll always end up a loser. You never get the chance to attain because you are always afraid to try. Take the risk sometimes or as what they say conquer your fears. It is not because you are weak; it is because you chose not to give yourself a try. If you prefer to stay within your comfort zone, you have missed the opportunity to prove to yourself that you can be beyond what you think you can do. You already have failed at the moment you did not try to take the test, and it wouldn’t be a good idea to always fail without even taking chances.
Do not internalize how weak you are. Do not listen to what it says. If you were used to a “much pampered” life, start going away with it. Do not be afraid to get hurt. This might be a cliché but it is true that “the more we get hurt, the more we discover how strong we are as a person”. If you always limit yourself to a peaceful and problem- free environment you don’t get to see how reality bites. Remember that even in fantasies, the fairy-tale characters also had their share of struggles before they “lived happily ever after”. Moreover, do not keep on admitting that you are weak, because it makes you weaker.
It’s not too late to acquire a strong personality. Somebody who is positive about the things in life. Sometimes being a weak person is a state of mind. It was yourself who actually have set your mind that you are inferior, you can not do something, and that you lack confidence. It was you who have trapped yourself inside a box and refuses to go out. It was your decision to limit yourself. Embrace new things and discover how beautiful life can be if you just know how to appreciate yourself being in the midst of challenges.
Now, think. Being weak will never be an advantage. It is something that pulls you down. Do not be imprisoned when you can be somebody who can stand still no matter how unkind life at times. Contrary to what the title have said, I would want end up saying, be strong this is right thing being weak can never make you a step ahead.
To start with, you will only discover how strong you are as a person if you have learned to acknowledge the opposite side. You may very tough as you are perceived by everybody but one thing for sure is that there is a part of you that is soft. The subject “weak” in this discussion will center on an attitude of being easily discourage in times confronted with life’s chaos, unmotivated because of a very low self-esteem, those who are trapped in an inferiority complex mode and someone who do not believe in herself/himself that they can actually make a difference. Before this attitude swallows you, it would be better to start trying to overcome it so that it wouldn’t become something that controls you. An attitude that hinders you to achieve and be somebody you want to be.
To posses any of the above mentioned character is indeed negative and to summarize it’s effect; you’ll always end up a loser. You never get the chance to attain because you are always afraid to try. Take the risk sometimes or as what they say conquer your fears. It is not because you are weak; it is because you chose not to give yourself a try. If you prefer to stay within your comfort zone, you have missed the opportunity to prove to yourself that you can be beyond what you think you can do. You already have failed at the moment you did not try to take the test, and it wouldn’t be a good idea to always fail without even taking chances.
Do not internalize how weak you are. Do not listen to what it says. If you were used to a “much pampered” life, start going away with it. Do not be afraid to get hurt. This might be a cliché but it is true that “the more we get hurt, the more we discover how strong we are as a person”. If you always limit yourself to a peaceful and problem- free environment you don’t get to see how reality bites. Remember that even in fantasies, the fairy-tale characters also had their share of struggles before they “lived happily ever after”. Moreover, do not keep on admitting that you are weak, because it makes you weaker.
It’s not too late to acquire a strong personality. Somebody who is positive about the things in life. Sometimes being a weak person is a state of mind. It was yourself who actually have set your mind that you are inferior, you can not do something, and that you lack confidence. It was you who have trapped yourself inside a box and refuses to go out. It was your decision to limit yourself. Embrace new things and discover how beautiful life can be if you just know how to appreciate yourself being in the midst of challenges.
Now, think. Being weak will never be an advantage. It is something that pulls you down. Do not be imprisoned when you can be somebody who can stand still no matter how unkind life at times. Contrary to what the title have said, I would want end up saying, be strong this is right thing being weak can never make you a step ahead.
Moving on…
There are times in our lives when we are swept over by desolation. It is natural to feel this way especially when someone so dear has been taken away from us, may it be someone in the family, a friend or a lover, it all feels the same. But we all need to be alone sometimes, to feel sad and lonely for us to be fully aware of the worth of the people we usually just take for granted thinking they’re just going to be where we’ve left them.
But what if fate suddenly plays with you? What if you just wake up one day and find them gone for good? And what’s more devastating is that you never even had the chance to show them how much you loved them all along. That sure is simply heartbreaking.
Lately, I have been reading this novel, “The Deep End of the Ocean” by Jaquelyn Mitchard. It’s a movie-turned novel which is about a mother who has lost her favorite son during a homecoming party with his high school classmates. In her case, what she did after that tragic loss was instead of trying to be strong for her other children, she had been overwhelmed by misery and secluded herself in solitary confinement, thinking she was the only one who has the right to feel that way.
Getting over such a great loss may seem inconceivable but I believe that there is no better thing to do than to stand and move on. Though you may feel so weak and broken, still you must try to pick up what’s left of you and hang on to it until all the wounds have mended and you’re strong enough to face a new day.
Longing for the person you’ve lost is a normal feeling but you shouldn’t let yourself be overwhelmed by sadness because no matter how much sorry you feel about it, no matter how many days, nights, weeks or months you spend whining won’t change a thing in the past.
Life does not have to end where your misery began, having someone and losing someone is just a phase in life we all have to go through. It is not something that we can control. It’s just a fact that we have to live with. Think of the people who are still with you, the ones who are waiting to be noticed by you, the ones who are willing to help you get over that dejection. Savor every minute you spend with them because it’s not going to last forever. Free yourself from inhibitions, being happy with someone else does not mean forgetting the memory of the one you’ve lost. It’s called moving on.
But what if fate suddenly plays with you? What if you just wake up one day and find them gone for good? And what’s more devastating is that you never even had the chance to show them how much you loved them all along. That sure is simply heartbreaking.
Lately, I have been reading this novel, “The Deep End of the Ocean” by Jaquelyn Mitchard. It’s a movie-turned novel which is about a mother who has lost her favorite son during a homecoming party with his high school classmates. In her case, what she did after that tragic loss was instead of trying to be strong for her other children, she had been overwhelmed by misery and secluded herself in solitary confinement, thinking she was the only one who has the right to feel that way.
Getting over such a great loss may seem inconceivable but I believe that there is no better thing to do than to stand and move on. Though you may feel so weak and broken, still you must try to pick up what’s left of you and hang on to it until all the wounds have mended and you’re strong enough to face a new day.
Longing for the person you’ve lost is a normal feeling but you shouldn’t let yourself be overwhelmed by sadness because no matter how much sorry you feel about it, no matter how many days, nights, weeks or months you spend whining won’t change a thing in the past.
Life does not have to end where your misery began, having someone and losing someone is just a phase in life we all have to go through. It is not something that we can control. It’s just a fact that we have to live with. Think of the people who are still with you, the ones who are waiting to be noticed by you, the ones who are willing to help you get over that dejection. Savor every minute you spend with them because it’s not going to last forever. Free yourself from inhibitions, being happy with someone else does not mean forgetting the memory of the one you’ve lost. It’s called moving on.
Do Anti-Aging Creams really work?
About 60 percent of the Ads in the television that we get to see everyday is on beauty products as well as vitamins that claim “this will make you young” or ‘this prevent aging”. These advertising tag lines are most probably very enticing and catchy for most women nowadays and really, 70 percent who have seen the commercial have tried any of the endorsed products. The subtle message is obviously on trying to stop our aging. Though it is a reality that we have to grow old or the nicer term is “matured” these ads are telling us that there are ways that we can control aging in terms of physical appearance.
There are exactly ways on how you can stop aging and applying these creams and the intake of vitamins can be on top of the list but the disadvantage is that it will cost 1/3 of your monthly salary. Those who can afford even spend for a surgery, but there are cheapest ways to stay young and healthy. You can actually achieve what these anti-aging creams have promised without trying any. It is indeed cool to be mistaken of being 5 years younger than your age and is actually flattering also. The most wonderful feeling of all is that not too much effort has been exerted but the most effective natural way of feeling and looking young.
Be happy. Even with just small and simple things. Being happy means smiling a lot: to people with acquaintances, to people you just meet, to cuddly kids and to those whom you feel like smiling for the purpose of being pleasant. Laugh out loud when there are chances and enjoy doing it. There have been scientific proofs about how smiling and laughing can make us young and the quote “laughter is the best medicine” is truthful. On the other hand, living a contented life also matters. When you are a person who can easily appreciate the things around you especially the things that you have, there is a least chance to have burdens in your heart. Having a cheerful heart keeps us young. A heart that is free from hatred, greed, insecurities, envy, and other negative vibes. What is stored in your heart reflects in your appearance, physically.
Be stress free. Do not allow yourself to be succumbed with the work loads that you have and the temporary dilemmas that you are confronted with. If you can not enjoy your job in the office, just do it properly and do not complain. Think about the responsibility that you have and how you are going to perform it well. When you start complaining about your job surely you welcome stress to reign over you. It is also human nature to encounter problems in our life’s journey but remember there is always the brighter side. It has always a purpose, hold on that. In the end, there is always a solution to every problem. Note that every wrinkle that appears in your face signifies those stressful things that you keep within yourself.
Do not nag. When you are always disappointed of everything, it will not surely make you look young. Do not be too irritated always about anything and everything simply because you don’t have to. Be calm on responding on some matters. You can always have a good conversation with anybody in a nice manner. There is nothing wrong with having an open mind that could understand situations and is rational about it. Every time you frown, think about that another wrinkle would appear in your face. A wrinkled face is so unlikely.
No anti-aging cream can ever function the way the natural method can do. Being young looking also has something to do with your inner self because what is inside you is manifested in your outward appearance. Take life as something that you have to enjoy. We all grow old, but we can keep a young and healthy heart that will surely give us that youthful radiance that most women would want to achieve.
There are exactly ways on how you can stop aging and applying these creams and the intake of vitamins can be on top of the list but the disadvantage is that it will cost 1/3 of your monthly salary. Those who can afford even spend for a surgery, but there are cheapest ways to stay young and healthy. You can actually achieve what these anti-aging creams have promised without trying any. It is indeed cool to be mistaken of being 5 years younger than your age and is actually flattering also. The most wonderful feeling of all is that not too much effort has been exerted but the most effective natural way of feeling and looking young.
Be happy. Even with just small and simple things. Being happy means smiling a lot: to people with acquaintances, to people you just meet, to cuddly kids and to those whom you feel like smiling for the purpose of being pleasant. Laugh out loud when there are chances and enjoy doing it. There have been scientific proofs about how smiling and laughing can make us young and the quote “laughter is the best medicine” is truthful. On the other hand, living a contented life also matters. When you are a person who can easily appreciate the things around you especially the things that you have, there is a least chance to have burdens in your heart. Having a cheerful heart keeps us young. A heart that is free from hatred, greed, insecurities, envy, and other negative vibes. What is stored in your heart reflects in your appearance, physically.
Be stress free. Do not allow yourself to be succumbed with the work loads that you have and the temporary dilemmas that you are confronted with. If you can not enjoy your job in the office, just do it properly and do not complain. Think about the responsibility that you have and how you are going to perform it well. When you start complaining about your job surely you welcome stress to reign over you. It is also human nature to encounter problems in our life’s journey but remember there is always the brighter side. It has always a purpose, hold on that. In the end, there is always a solution to every problem. Note that every wrinkle that appears in your face signifies those stressful things that you keep within yourself.
Do not nag. When you are always disappointed of everything, it will not surely make you look young. Do not be too irritated always about anything and everything simply because you don’t have to. Be calm on responding on some matters. You can always have a good conversation with anybody in a nice manner. There is nothing wrong with having an open mind that could understand situations and is rational about it. Every time you frown, think about that another wrinkle would appear in your face. A wrinkled face is so unlikely.
No anti-aging cream can ever function the way the natural method can do. Being young looking also has something to do with your inner self because what is inside you is manifested in your outward appearance. Take life as something that you have to enjoy. We all grow old, but we can keep a young and healthy heart that will surely give us that youthful radiance that most women would want to achieve.
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